2015 Yamaha R3.
I believe that the engineers who make these sports cars put their heart and soul in their creation because you can feel the thrill when you are driving these sleek and powerful cars. When I first started working as a pharmacist, I bought one of these fancy, German sports cars. I felt so alive and so myself while driving it, which was rare for the kind of lifestyle I was living, and I almost identified myself with my car. I think it was in the very first month of buying the car, I noticed a huge scratch on the front bumper, and the pain I felt was as though I had a gash on my knee.
After seven years, I still feel the same aliveness while driving the same car, but something has changed: I no longer Identify myself with my car. I step in my car when I need to, I drive to wherever I have to go, but the obsession has faded.
I wish I could use my mind as I use my car now: step in my mind when needed and step out when the task is done, and not take anything personally with what goes on in my mind. When I said that I wonder who is it that stepping in and out of the mind, who is it that driving the mind. Perhaps that’s the quest of the whole mankind, perhaps that’s what we are seeking in our every pursuit of pleasure.
Written by Raj H.
Measurement is the basic requirement for comparison. But the things most of us value in life are intangible. They have no metric; they can’t be measured. But we are trained to find happiness by comparison right from our childhood. So we ignore what is real and what we really want, and we go after things that we can easily measure and compare.
Let’s explore a little more. Measurements and comparisons are thought forms. Thought is past; it’s not real. So, trying to seek happiness by comparison is an illusion, isn’t it? Aren’t we avoiding what is real when we are measuring and comparing?
By Raj H.
By Raj H.
Written by Raj H.
This happens in schools, workplaces, and personal lives.
We go to school for learning. And we have exams and marks and grades to evaluate our progress of learning . As we go on with schooling, grades become more important. We almost forget that our goal here is learning. We want to do anything to get that good-looking grade. Some even stoop to immoral acts to get that desired grade.
It’s the same at most of our workplaces. Our corporate people create procedures for customer satisfaction and revenue generation, and they set up certain stats (Key Performance Indicators – KPI) for evaluation. They become so obsessed with the stats that they don’t really care if our customers are happy or if we are generating revenue. What they all care about is if the KPIs look the way they wanted.
And we, in our personal lives, set goals and choose paths for our happiness and fulfillment. We tend to get so obsessed with our plan that we get worked up when things don’t happen the way we planned. We fritter away our energy trying to find the answer “why” something has happened, and we totally ignore what is in front of us. We even forget what we really want in our lives.
If we learn to step back and look at the big picture, and if we try to remind ourselves what we really want, our lives become simpler, more meaningful, and achieving our goals becomes easier.
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